Hi there guys
You are both right.
The bottom line is that we are all people with varying life situations - this forum is a place where we can communicate, make friends and be honest with each other and hopefully get a sense of empowerment about a skin disease that heaps of people have but rarely can talk about openly.
The Live Chat Room is just that, a place to chat. So naturally you will find all kinds of different conversations going on in here. Some might be crazy, fun, flirty, depressed, boring, childish, whatever... that is human conversation and that is great. The point is that we like to encourage open and free discussions about everything so we can actually get to know each other.
If someone is not following the forum rules (as armywife has linked to above) please feel free to report the problem to myself or one of our moderators for consideration, we are here to mediate if there is a conflict.
Of course, the chat room can also be used to get immediate support if you need it, but it is not limited to the subject of herpes... this is just a starting point and hopefully what comes out of it is a lot more.
Shenda